We've mulled around with doing a sex/advice column on byt- but nothing ever seemed to fit.... until Dr. Debby came along. Look at her cool website: MySexProfessor.com
That's right, we're bringing in the pros- cause we take your sex life THAT seriously.
Send your questions to Info@brightestyoungthings.com with "Dr. Debby" as the subject. All questions will be anonymous, that said - please provide a clever alias.
The Hotness:
The Bio:
Dr. Debby Herbenick, author of Because It Feels Good: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Pleasure and Satisfaction, She is also a sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction where she writes (and hosts audio podcasts of) the Kinsey Confidential column and coordinates educational programming. She has a PhD in Health Behavior from IU, a Master’s degree in Public Health Education (also from IU) and a bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of Maryland, College Park. In addition, she is certified as a Sexuality Educator from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists.
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God loves a cheerful giver.
Dear Dr. Debby,
How do I get the sex?
Thanks,
Chris
P.S. I don't play any instruments
All you people had to do was ask. I realize that it may be awkward when I see you out, but you could do it anonymously.
What the fuck is a certified Sexuality Educator?
dear dr. debby,
how good in bed is too good? should i tone it down? it's hard to shake these bettys after i launch the magic missle.
yours,
standard white issue
Somebody who doesn't know the difference between ejaculation and the male orgasm, evidently. Perhaps I'm judging her too harshly, but her article today displays a pretty alarmingly low level of understanding of male sexuality.
Sorry, guys, but Dr. Debby, while hot, is FAIL.
her book *is* called "a WOMAN'S guide to..."
mmmmmmmmMILFy hot, to be precise. Svelte mom. WAsn't she in Sex & the City? She sure looks like one.
Eddie: Dear Michael, what is the best way to make a woman cum?
Dear Eddie: Who cares?
this actually relates to the paper/bib i'm currently working on.
she has horrible hair, but i can get over that because i'm kind of envious of her job.
WHY ARE YOU MAKING FUN OF HER HAIR!??!
Eddie,
While *I* appreciate your use of asterisks, you missed *the bloody point* - the lead article this morning on her website, dated March 19, states that males can't have multiple orgasms because they're physically incapable of ejaculating multiple times in a row without reloading. Her conflation of ejaculation with orgasm immediately disqualifies her from any claim to expertise on the functionings of the male variety of junk.
That's what I meant by saying, FAIL.
*ok*, william. thanks for letting *us* know that *you* have such a problem with *her* article, mr. multiple orgasm. reeoowr!
Hi all,
1. Chris: Not even the trombone? Ukelele? Accordian? Come, now.
2. Michael: A certified sexuality educator is someone who is - wait for it - certified by a professional organization (in this case, AASECT - see aasect.org) to teach about sexuality. A certification can be a helpful way of understanding the type of educational background and professional experiences someone has had.
3. William: please see the footnote (denoted by *) that refers to the difference between ejaculation and orgasm in men, and how some men learn to separate the two but for most they are conflated.
4. Amanda: Generally I like my hair but I agree that was a very bad hair day (note the frizz on the right) due to a failed attempt at curling and then having to blow dry quickly while running late.
5. SWI: Is there such thing as too good?
6. Amanda: if I can be helpful in regard to your paper, please let me know.
Looking forward to reading your questions!
Best,
Debby
I'm in love.
Ya'll better get freaky up in this shit. I don't want to read about your bent cocks or if a woman can get pregnant doing the reverse cowgirl.
Feel free to submit the following:
How long after I start wearing a buttplug to please my boyfriend will I be able to walk in heels and not look like I spent a night in prison?
My girlfriend calls me daddy in bed. Is it safe to have kids with her or is she going to go all Fritzl on me?
My girlfriend doesn't like pineapple juice but she loves giving golden showers. Can you recommend another juice that will make her pee pee taste better?
Orgies: anonymous partners or close friends?
etc.
Debby should also detail her sexual history. Reading about building a house is a lot different than putting hammer to nail afterall.
Oh very well, so suppose we’ve been to the Zoo, the National Gallery of Art, restaurants and the movies and now there she is in my bedroom wearing nothing. Except. Her Victoria Secret underwear. And yes, I’m having an erection. How exactly do I proceed???
i'm a fan, she addressed the frizz. and i'm just kind of sick of people wearing their hair like that if they're out of high school. just a personal preference. (cutting hair is my job and i get so bored if i have to give that haircut more than once a week.)
debby, from what you said it sounded like you used a curling iron on wet hair?!?! that should happen never. anyway, i may sent some questions on over shortly, or at least use your site as a reference.
libby, everyone was talking about how hot they think she is, and i'm all "the frame is crooked!" like, i can't look at a picture in a crooked frame because i'm too focused on whether or not it is appropriate to fix it.
DR DEBBY HAS FACED TYRA... AND LIVED
her hair looks fabulous there, and i totally want a vagina puppet.
it's true though, so many women do not know their bodies. it's ridiculous.