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Live DC: Wedding Present / Jealous Girlfriends @ The Cat

Live DC: Wedding Present / Jealous Girlfriends @ The Cat

October 14, 2008 by Peter Send to a Friend Send to a Friend

You could think of the Wedding Present’s songbook as one long last love letter to a girl who broke up with you in college.

And you do.

You think of it when you stumble on a used Peel Sessions EP cassette in 1992 and play it again and again on a long road trip, rewinding to David Gedge starting Orange Juice’s “Felicity” with the mysterious smirk, “This is a William Shatner number,” before crooning and swallowing vowels over a perfect clean guitar blur. You think this when you hear a Saturnalia song at 3 am in a goth club parking lot on the pirate radio station in 1998, the one about Montreal and distance and infidelity and falling out of love with someone the minute you realize you can’t live without them.

And you think of this in 2008, when you go to see them at the Black Cat.

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You watch the Jealous Girlfriends, and you remember some good things about indie rock in the 1990s. It was all about repression back then, these shy bespectacled Proufrockers petrified of sex and of offending anyone or being seen as crude or ignorant building intricate “post-posts” into their pop music, fences. Nothing too emotional or animalistic was allowed to emerge, as bands subverted catharsis with throwaway lyrics and arbitrary musical pressure valves to release the tension of buildups to clichéd rock and roll moments. But if the music could overcome this tendency toward obfuscation and wannabe-jazz mannerisms it could explode into unapologetic 3-chord clouds like Velocity Girl or compress into soulful warbling like Jeff Buckley and his many imitators. At their best the Jealous Girlfriends eclectically recall both; burning midtempo head-shakers into cuddlecore distortion flare-ups or slowing down into bluesy Cat Power-esque hypnotic drones. At their worst they sound like every other band with a 718 area code on their cells and an Echo and the Bunnymen setting on their keyboards: lurching, ornate, disconnected. You hope that light beats dark in their sound eventually, not least because singer Holly Miranda looks like a woman who would follow you across the country to convince you to fall in love with and marry her, get bored after a month, join Cirque D’Soleil and reappear every five years to steal your weed and take your mother to breakfast.

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The Wedding Present walk onstage and start without introduction or fanfare. They play some songs you remember and some songs you’ve never heard, but most of them you could have heard before, but you’re not sure. You think this must be the intended effect; there’s nothing arch or coy about Gedge’s songwriting approach, he talks directly to someone on every song and isn’t afraid of being clichéd in the slightest. You imagine a space alien humming along with “Spider-man on Hollywood” on his way towards Earth. Gedge hasn’t changed his approach at all since perfecting jangle-punk in the late 80s. It’s not a pose or a marketing scheme though. It’s just him being himself. Most people get crystallized around the age of 22, but some realize it sooner than others. The faster you figure out what the fuck it is that you’re all about the happier you’ll be. What are you all about? Is it sitting around staring into a silent telephone wondering why you didn’t say this or that? Is it remembering the worst times in a relationship nostalgically, walking around and around the dead arguments and lies like an unhealthy running track? Does listening to Gedge say things like “Seeing you with him is much better than not seeing you at all ” short-circuit this process or make it worse?

Who knows? There are some seriously rabid Wedding Present fans in the crowd.

The women are calling out “I want to kiss you!” and shimmying like go-go dancers. The men all look a little pained though, even when he plays their favorite song and they wave their arms in bliss they grimace and shake their heads ruefully at certain lines. The band rocks really hard: guitars flailing around on the bashy Britpop stuff and arms whipping through the jangling early stuff.

Calling it jangle is such a misnomer in your opinion.

The Byrds jangle. The Stone Roses jangle.

The Wedding Present SHREDS. They are the Eddie Van Halen of bar chords and tom toms. When they really get going you could happily listen to that riff for an hour straight–White Heat rumbling jungle beat and White Light two chord syncopated full arm up and down wrist-wrecking papercut guitar. You’ve never noticed how important the bass lines are to the sound until you can’t take you eyes off Terry De Castro. She whips her short hair into her face arhythmically and is hella cute, but you’re riveted by the open string rumbling and melodies that have been working on you for years without you knowing it. You can’t decide whether to sweat, cry, or flip them off spitefully, especially after they stop and Gedge says “That was Jangle-tastic wasn’t it?”

The superfans keep calling out songs and he says, “In all the years of seeing this band, have we ever played a request? We have 20 songs to remember already. That’s enough.” They keep doing it anyway. He says “Shouldn’t your Washington Redskins be called the Native American Skins? I’m just asking.” Some scattered booing. He says, “We LOVE playing in Washington DC” then grins unreadably. Some laughter. He says, “Thanks a lot this is our last song,” and sings a slow blaster that goes “You really don’t get it do you?” Is he singing to you? Do you get it? It’s hard to see how you don’t. You’ve been using his lyrics to make sense of the bitterness for almost two decades, you can’t imagine a time when you’d be so cheerful or unrepentant that the strife of early adulthood will seem unimportant, when a song that says what you always wanted to say–when she left or when you left and she didn’t care, or when you left each-other on good terms and it seemed like a good idea but then you see her in a Starbucks with a dude in a sport coat and you want to eat glass but not as much as you want to hear her voice saying your name–a song like that never goes out of fashion, if the clichés are cut with ambiguity, just as every relationship ends in sweetness and loss, and you’re never as in love with someone as when you realize they are going to leave you.

You should always keep in touch with your friends.

photos: Jealous Girlfriends by Raisa Patron, from last time, and Wedding Present from bbc.co.uk

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Michael Says:

There were more dudes at this show than a Morrissey Concert in Mexico City.

This show is the final nail in the coffin of my love/hate affair with D.C. D.C. folk pretend they like good music. They talk about it incessently. They blog about it for chrissakes. They buy tickets for shows months in advance. They sell out the 9:30 club for great bands, and for idiocy like Girl Talk.

And then, to my dismay, to the dismay of everyone I talked to that night (4 people because I really don’t like people), only 317 people show up to The Wedding Present. One of them bought tickets months in advance. Two others couldn’t believe the line wasn’t around the corner. Only Peter was slightly realistic with his statement that people don’t go to see old guys sing. I disagreed with him.

Three Hundred and Seventeen. I asked.

Are you fucking kidding me? 2000 of you go to watch an idiot with a laptop pour beer on himself and create a party atmosphere because he lets people on stage with him and only 317 can muster the effort to go see one of the most influential bands of the past 20 years?

700+ of you will go to Mousetrap to dance once a month. Listening to The Wedding Present is an exercise ishearing how the almost entire catalogue of music presented at Mousetrap got its influence from The Wedding Present. You can hear most every Brit-pop band apeing TWP in their music. It was, essentially, a brit-pop dance party live. They did shred. Their lyrics are impeccable, true, cutting, and intelligent.

Fuck you, DC. You know nothing of music and you appreciate only the mundane.

I’m done with you. Monster.com here I come. First job that will pay to relocate me wins.

Your second to last sentence, P, was great.

October 14, 2008 at 1:46 pm
John Foster Says:

Nice review. Totally nailed the charm (or dark corners) inherent in Gedge’s songs. No one quite captures those exact moments like he does and on top of that no band has ever played guitar live like they do. The no encore policy has always charmed me as well. Sorry I couldn’t make this right behind Wire earlier in the night but this brings me back to the other times I have seen them - thanks.

October 14, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Svetlana Says:

Peter writes the best show reviews in the tri-state area.
Fact.

October 14, 2008 at 2:04 pm
victoryrose Says:

it would be impossible to pick out my favorite words/lines/parts of this review. wow, peter. excellent write-up.

(michael, i also love your comment. i agree on so many fronts. not just about dc per se, but certainly about people in general. also a little bummed that i’m djing on the same night as mousetrap on saturday…boo.)

October 14, 2008 at 2:18 pm
Peter Says:

Mikey: Good luck finding anywhere in this country where flocks of people go to see rock and roll bands like they used to, especially when they are in their 50s. We’ll miss you Shane.

October 14, 2008 at 2:34 pm
Martha Says:

Michael -

They’re hiring in Palmyra again. That’s about as far from DC as you can go. Salary plus meals.

That said - TWP put on an amazing show.

October 14, 2008 at 2:39 pm
eddie Says:

don’t worry, VR, we’ll come see you.
michael - people suck everywhere.

great review, peter.

October 14, 2008 at 2:40 pm
Michael Says:

Pyotr, at best I can hope to find a place where there isn’t the pretention without substance DC has turned into over the past 5 years or so. Or has it been in as little as 3?

Also he rocked harder, played better, sang more intensely than most bands I’ve seen in their 20s, and you know I’ve seen a lot of bands.

October 14, 2008 at 2:41 pm
John Foster Says:

I agree about Peter Peter Reviewereater but I will still take that as a mild slap in the face - haha.

October 14, 2008 at 2:42 pm
Michael Says:

@ Martha: I wondered how long it would take before someone would offer to help me on my way.

October 14, 2008 at 2:44 pm
victoryrose Says:

peter - i’m making the commitment right now that i will go see rock and roll bands when i’m in my 50s. promise. i mean, i’m not that far from it now (yikes).

unfortunately, people do suck everywhere. but, more to michael’s point, it is pretty amazing that some bands can bring people out in droves, while others (arguably more deserving?) can barely break 300. it is sad and incredibly unfortunate. although, to be honest, most of the time i would rather experience my favorite bands minus douchebags who don’t actually care.

and eddie, i heart you.

October 14, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Melissa Says:

Nice review. Thanks!

Michael: I went to see Wire that night and I too was shocked to see how few people were in attendance. It was a pretty enthusiastic crowd, so that kind of made up for it, but man! My friends and I bought tickets ahead of time thinking that the show might sell out (I kind of wish I hadn’t… buying them in advance added another $10+ to the price.) Sad to hear this show wasn’t well-attended either.

October 14, 2008 at 2:50 pm
Svetlana Says:

Michael complains, but you know that is this show was at RNR Hotel (or even 930 club) he would not go.

Getting him to a show outside the Black Cat is harder than busting to the front row of a Girl Talk show.

I have not been to a show in over a month myself, no matter where they were, so feel free to cast some stones in response.

October 14, 2008 at 3:03 pm
Peter Says:

JF/VR: I wasn’t trying to say people shouldn’t go to rock and roll shows or play them, but really it’s a young person’s music, made for teenagers. It’s kind of embarrassing to be all leatherpantsed out grinding drunk in bar when you should be wiping baby shit and fixing the leaks in your overpriced McMansion.

This is just the explanation for the lack of fans willing to see 40+ fogeys rock out except the rolling stones. Most of the best shows I’ve seen have been in someone’s basement anyway, with 12 dudes and 40 40 ozs. Caring about whether enough people like the right music is for Micheals.

October 14, 2008 at 3:06 pm
Michael Says:

Svet is partially correct. I would not go see them at 9:30 because I despise everything about that venue. It’s life-sucking. I would, however, see them at RnR.

October 14, 2008 at 3:12 pm
Peter Says:

As a side note, what about old people at dance parties? How much longer can I wear neon pink and do my house party impression to baltimore club shit with a bunch of 19-year-olds? I seems noble to vow to be a rock fan for life, but what about grandma and grandpa up in the club?

Whither Grown and Sexy? Let’s ask Anderson Cooper to do a special report!

October 14, 2008 at 3:12 pm
Jet Age Eric Says:

FWIW:
1) David really does love playing DC

2) I believe attendance was up a little for this year’s show

3) Great review (I actually watched the show with a member of Velocity Girl, but he missed Jealous Girlfriends so the schadenfreude was reduced)

4) RNRH: I’m playing a show with my hero, Adam Franklin of Swervedriver, this Friday. I sent out an email about the gig and a dude on my mailing list who came to my band via Swervedriver wrote to tell me he had no idea Adam was coming to town and had never heard of RNRH. Had we not been on the bill, he wouldn’t've known one of his favorite acts was coming to town. I think there’s a generation gap, and it needs to be bridged if RNRH is gonna succeed. Also, people need to realize that if they can’t be bothered to come to shows, then the bands are gonna have a hard time being bothered to come play them. Sounds elementary, but I think people are being shortsighted. If a band you love is coming to town, GO SEE THEM. There may not be a next time. Seriously.

-E

October 14, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Cale Says:

Michael - as Foster mentioned, there was a competing show at 9:30 Club. That’s where I was. I debated between the two, and ended up at Wire. Partially because of a free ticket but mainly cause I’m a bigger fan. Personally I think Wire are a more influential band than The Wedding Present. But I think Gedge would say the same thing. Point is, faulting people for going to Wire over Wedding Present seems misguided. Faulting people Girl Talk for packing it in while Wedding Present didn’t is worth thinking about . First of all, most people have shitty taste. It’s just the way things are. Getting angry about it seems a bit silly and thinking it’s significantly better someplace else with the same population density is probably untrue. I think Klosterman wrote an essay on this once. I’ll try to find it. Anyway - a bunch of those kids that went to Girl Talk probably would not have had as good of a time at the Wedding Present show. Probably a ton of them didn’t know who the Wedding Present were. Girl Talk is more prevalent in their life, it’s easier to find out about Girl Talk in 2008, and like it or not, Girl Talk is more important to music in 2008 than Wedding Present, deserved or not. There is a reason Girl Talk was booked at 9:30 and Wedding Present was booked at The Cat. Are you really shocked? 317 seems about right to me.

(This is not to say I haven’t been guilty of saying the same thing/reacting the same way as you, I’m just sayin’, is all)

Also, what’s with the 9:30 Club hate? Great sound, great lighting, and just small enough that it can often still feel intimate. I too love small club shows, but 9:30 Club is just about the best venue of that size in the country.

October 14, 2008 at 3:52 pm
eddie Says:

what is wrong with the 9:30 club?

October 14, 2008 at 3:56 pm
Michael Says:

I just don’t like the 9:30. Can’t explain it but I’ve never had a good time at a show there, even in the VIP section. Ever. Ok, once, during the BRMC hurricane show, but that was it.

October 14, 2008 at 5:52 pm
Backup player Says:

I filled in for one of the musicians in Gedge’s old (new) band for a US tour five years ago. He doesn’t care how many people come to the show. He’s used to playing half-empty clubs. It doesn’t change the quality of the show at all. I kind of think he’d prefer 317 at the Black Cat than 1,000 at 930 Club. (Even though I’ve seen way better shows there than at the Black Cat myself.)

October 14, 2008 at 8:53 pm
never again Says:

i saw the main dude from wedding present and the female guitarist play a free show at sxsw 2008. it was sooooooo bad (out of tune, acoustic, boring) i vowed i would never see them again. maybe they are better with a full band.

October 24, 2008 at 5:29 pm